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A quick reminder to all the dudes out there

from [kanin] by Canine

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///TRIGGER WARNING : this song is about sexual abuse///


Why do most womyn I know say that they have been abused?
Why do most womyn I know have confidence and trust issues?

No means no
And I know you mean it when you say you don't mean no harm
You can feel that she wants it, you can see she's interested
Did you just ask?
You say it's not glamorous but is abuse really glamorous?

It means no if she stays silent, if she is asleep, "hosting you" doesn't mean "fucking you"
It means no when she's got a headache or any other reason, when she says so, when she says so
It means no and why should you not be okay with it? Why should you insist?
It means no and there's no way you can argue with that, it means no and there's no way you can argue

(Being in a) relationship doesn't mean she owes you nothing
She wanted you before doesn't mean she wants you now
Maybe she's changed her mind and what is wrong with that?
The only way to know for sure is to check with her before, during and after

It's so sad and I hate it, rapes don't only take place in dark alleys but in what should be the comfortable arms of friends and lovers, or that friend of a friend of a friend. I've got so many stories you wouldn't believe it. And that's the problem.
You would probably say it's exaggerated, that she dressed sexy anyway. In the end, it's always men who decide when womyn are raped or not.

Why do most womyn I know... ?

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from [kanin], released June 5, 2015

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Canine Marseille, France

Canine is a mix of screamo and post hardcore with a bit of post rock parts.
We try to make our live appearences as inclusive as possible as we like 'DO IT TOGETHER' way better than 'DO IT YOURSELF'.
We play our sets with rage and sing the end of all oppressions with passion. ... more

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